Sunday, August 29, 2010

all the hopes + dreams

i love that i'm at a new time in life - i still know people young enough to have babies (see the brand new beautiful henry pictured) and last week i found out i know someone who will be a grandma for the first time. someone i went to high school with has children old enough to want to have children! i'm not sure how that happened so fast, but this time feels special.

all the hopes and dreams we feel as parents must feel different as grandparents. the changed perspective. the reality of your children raising a child. and maybe even your hopes and dreams you had of your child becoming a parent now realized. it must incomprehensible on some level. and of course you will now have the ability to offer your opinions when asked....or whenever!

i'm convinced grandparents have forgotten the day-to-day of parenting. they either remember only the good times or only the bad ones, but not the regular ups and downs of the typical day in a parent's life. i can barely remember what zach was like 14 years ago. what i do remember always makes me smile though. i hope years from now if i'm lucky enough to be a grandma, i'd like to enjoy it as much as i enjoy being a parent.

wwcd: one more something wonderful to look forward to

1 comment:

  1. from aunt judy:

    Isn't it wonderful to have something so life changing and frightening as you surmise it to be? the birth of that first grandchild, the looking down into the face of a miracle that has just taken place, the knowing that forever and ever nothing will ever be the same. embrace the moment. embrace the child of yours that has now become a parent. miracles...without a doubt the entire miraculous landscape before up will be forever changing on a moment to moment. enjoy the ride. enjoy the miracle that has changed all of u forever. what a roller coaster ride u will experience.
    the umpteen pictures, the no place left to display them. I will personally send u the grandmothers photo album. never leaving the house without it. never knowing who u will meet on the street.
    Best advice I can give....given to me by many: don't emulate your mom, any mom. be the grandmother. the new life in your hands will never do anything wrong. u have just received the perfect child. enjoy the ride and most of all, the role of grandmother. meanwhile, enjoy the role u are now living.......Zach is blessed to have u in his life, and will make u proud the the day he makes u a grandma....xoxoxo Judy

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